YOU

In our life ,, we have a lots of questions ... And we don't know where or how to find the answers ... That's why many of us losing their hopes ,, afraid to face their problems ,, hiding in their own shadows ,, lots of fear ,, and blaming someone ,, and giving up ,, ended their lives for a very unacceptable reasons !!

Well I want you to wake up and ask you ,, Who honors those we love with the very life we live ?? Who sends monsters to kill us ,, and the same time sings that we'll never die ?? Who teaches us what's real and how to laugh at lies ?? Who decides why we live and what we'll die to defend ?? Who chains us ?? And who holds the key that can set us free ?? It's YOU !! You have all the weapons you need !! now FIGHT !!

-When your life is a mess ,, when your heart has been crushed ,, and wearing a frown when you break down and cry ,, when you're terribly blue ,, you can always comfort yourself by saying ,, you can fight for it !! And remember there always be tomorrow for you to stand up !! chin up dear !! don't lost hope !! there always be an answer for all of your questions ,, and there always YOU to answer it !! Fight for your LIFE :)

Lies

Lies ,, lies ,, lies !! We lies for our own go0d ,, for someone to cover off ,, for the sake of others ... But the cruelest lies is often untold in silence ,, and by this - we're hurting our self ... We're lying in our self although we already knows what is the truth ... we are just scared of accepting the truth that's why we need to lie ... But it really hurts worst more than you ever think it is ... That's why you need to think before you move ,, and be sure that you are ready for the consequences you'll face if everything gets wrong ... Be sure that you wont regret what will happen ,, if it is going to be successful or failure ... It's good to lie sometimes ,, but don't lie to yourself !! that is not healthy !! Thinking of "who really am i" ,, "am i that bad" ,, "i wish i didn't do that" ,, "what did i do" ,, what will im going to do now" : these are some questions that bothering you when your lying ,, specially lying to yourself ... you already knew you did something wrong but ,, u keep on thinking that you didn't do that ... well ,, you are such a LIER !! accept it ,, you lie !! and if you accept to yourself that you lie ,, you will felt relief ... even though you did wrong atleast you know that you did that for the right reason ... Just be honest to your self !! if more lies for a friend to cover off ,, well no more lies for your self !! accept it !! it's you !!

-for lovers out there :D well ,, lying with each other for some go0d reasons is a common problem of some lovers ... But ,, you don't need to lie to the one you love ... You love her/him so you trust her/him ... Be open with her/him ,, if she/he really loves you she would understand :)

-for those guys: if a woman ask you a question ,, it's better to tell her the truth because chances are she's asking you because she already knows the answer ... coz you guys always find a way to escape the fire you started ,, while your girl already waiting for you to the fire exit :D

-for those daughters/sons who lies often to their parents; CHEERS !! i do lie too :DD lol ... but you know what ?? sometimes ,, we need to be open to our parents for what we feels ... Because they are the one who knows what best for us :) they don't want their children to suffer or for us to bring burden or for us to drown ... Parents always want the best for their children ... But sometimes ,, we don't understand them and they do always understand us :) so ,, try to open up to your parents :) they've got the best advises and answers you need to hear :)

-it is never too late to be what you might have been :)

You Are Not Alone

-uhmmmm ... hey viewers ,, readers ,, subscribers ,, followers :D thanks for visiting my blog anyways :) uhmmm ,, this is for those ALONE or who thinks that they're ALONE ...

-hey !! aloner + loney = aLonely :D you are not really alone my dear !! you were just thinking that you're alone because you don't want someone or somebody to enter your world !! thinking that no one understand you ,, everyone hates you ,, nobody cares about you ,, and thinking that the world curse you !! Jeeezzz ... is that really is the reason why ?? or you're just scared ?? scared of something will happened again ,, scared of rejection ,, scared to be in hurtin' ... How would you know if you don't even know the word "TRY" ?? my dear ,, don't hide in your own shadow ... explore the world around you ,, Unlock the do0r in your castle ... Let someone enter your kingdom,, share your burdens ... There are someone waiting for you to let them in and willing to listen ... It's healthy to be alone sometimes ,, but it's not healthy to be alone in your whole life !! My dear ,, You are not alone :) God is there ,, your family ,, your friends :) learn to accept ,, forgive ,, forget and move on :) Trials are like fire ... It can destroy or strengthen you ,, depending on your character and outlook in life ... remember ,, the fire that melts butter is the same fire that harden steels :) Sometimes we need to be alone ... Sometimes we just don't to be comforted because we need the chance to take it in ... All that has been ,, all the pain left behind ... The best cure is time on your own to analyze ,, time to put your self together again and time to see that all you ever wanted is now nothing but a fading memory ... Time to let it go and time to start again :)

so hey ,, get your ass up !! step out wherever you are right now and start your life all over again with a happy thoughts :) look at the bright side :)

Maturity

Maturity and stability assure the future more than virginity ... Marrying a virgin is not an assurance of a happy and perfect marriage ... Premarital sex is the act of making love before marriage ... I simply want you to realize that premarital sex doesn't necessarily make a person soiled ,, dirty and worthless ... Being virgin doesn't necessarily mean that one is better than non-virgins ... People are free to choose and decisions lie on their discretion ... To those non-virgins out their ,, don't be confuse of your future or marriage life future ... The real man knows what woman's worth ... If he really loves you ,, he will love you with all his heart ,, love you whoever you are and whatever you are ... By accepting yourcelf ,, others will accept you to0 ... So ,, hey !! be matured enough to face life and accept yourself of who you really are ... Don't regret things that made u once happy ...

Long Distance Relationship

Long Distance Relationship is a common situation of lovers out there ... But many of us don't want to be in this situation ... Actually ,, to be in the distance to the one you love is a challenge ... Challenging your trust and the trust given by the one you love ... If you really love your partner ,, don't measure the distance but measure your love for each other ... Distance is not a reason for you to break-up ... Too much with each other cause quarrels sometimes ... Keeping the one you love beside you all of the time ,, showing that you don't trust him/her ... The number one ingredients of LOVE is TRUST ... If you really love that person ,, let him/her to go somewhere wherever he/she want to go ... Find jobs ,, to be with his/her family ,, finding him/herself ... There are lots of reasons of Long Distance Relationship ... And all of that happened for a reason ... So why worry ?? Worrying for the word "CHEAT" ?? or the word "FORGET" ?? my God !! Wake up !! If He/She do that ,, then let it be !! Let Him/Her go ... or in the other side ,, you are the one who making the word Cheat/Forget ,, well ....... you need to tell him/her the truth ... don't let him/her hoping for nothing ... It just means that ,, you love him/her when he/she's around because he/she can fill the loneliness inside you and that is not love ... uhmmm ,, yeah maybe it is ... but loosing your feeling for him/her just because of the distance ?? huh :D well ,, you don't really love him/her ...

True love waits ... so if you really Love that person ,, sacrifice ... you're not the only one sacrificing ... he/she sacrifice to0 ... for the sake of love you can do anything for richer or for poorer with the one you love ... laugh ,, cry ,, happy ,, sad ,, whatever it'll happens don't broke the trust someone gives you ... it's the only key to what we call success ... success in love ... :)

Eternal Kiss

Dreaming ... Eternal Kiss, Eternal Love or Eternity ... It's only a fantasy ... Sometimes we choose to live in dreams than living in reality ,, we choose it because in dreams everything is perfect, we can do what ever we want to do ,, designing our lives ,, makes everything perfect. In real world ,, you can't do that ... When we wish good thing happens but it won't happen ,, worst may get sometimes than we expected too ... But that's life ... We need to face reality ... I'm not saying "Stop Dreaming" or "Stop Fantasizing", I just want you to know that you're just wasting your time Dreaming/Fantasizing ...

Live your life to the fullest, don't waste your time by setting down or lying down, flying your minds somewhere over the rainbow ... It won't help you ... Your making your life worthless ... If everything's go wrong ,, don't just say "I Wish it would be" or "I Wish blablablabla" ... It won't help you, it won't help your problem solve ... Face it !! don't let the time past and get worst doing nothing ... Killing yourself ,, Dreaming ,, Fantasizing is not the solution ... Facing it is the number one solution and I know it's the best thing to do ...

That's Life ,, Reality ... so hey ,, for those dreamers out there ,, if you want your dreams come true ,, live your life in reality & do something worth living for ... Your lucky to have a chance to live in this wonderful world ... Problems is normal ... so live with it !! don't stay within the limit ,, coz when you obey all the rules ,, you miss all the fun ... There's more to life :D